Organization With Suzie

Understanding the Struggle Phase: A Path to Growth in Your Life and Business

Suzanne Roberts Lukowsky, MPH, CBC

8/25/20252 min read

woman in white brassiere and orange panty standing beside white car
woman in white brassiere and orange panty standing beside white car

Four Stages of Flow State

Flow state, a term popularized by psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, represents a mental state where individuals experience complete immersion in an activity. This state progresses through four critical stages: struggle, release, flow, and recovery. This week, we will explore the struggle phase particularly, emphasizing its vital role in fostering growth and clarity within both personal life and business endeavors.

The Importance of the Struggle Phase

Struggling is often viewed negatively, but it is in this phase that the foundation for significant breakthroughs is laid. During struggle, the mind and body are challenged, pushing individuals out of their comfort zones. For instance, consider a beginner musician who faces difficulties mastering a new instrument. This initial discomfort—often characterized by frustration and fatigue—arkens the path to eventual mastery.

Statistics reveal that nearly 70% of professionals experience feelings of inadequacy when encountering challenges at work. However, embracing struggle can lead to pivotal shifts in perspective, providing clarity about one's strengths and weaknesses. Furthermore, research carried out by the University of California has shown that overcoming obstacles can increase resilience, enhancing both personal growth and professional effectiveness.

An Entreprenuer's Struggle

Let’s dive into the story of Lisa, an aspiring entrepreneur who launched her e-commerce business. In the beginning, she struggled significantly with marketing and customer engagement. Each failed campaign left her disheartened, causing her to question her abilities and the viability of her business idea.

Rather than retracting in despair, Lisa sought feedback and learned from her failures. She began to understand the nuances of her target audience and tailored her strategies accordingly. This struggle led to a pivotal moment in her journey—one that clarified her vision and propelled her business forward. Today, Lisa runs a successful enterprise, attributing much of her growth to the lessons learned during her struggle phase.

Why Struggle Generates Clarity and Growth

Struggle is not merely a byproduct of pursuing our ambitions; it serves a broader purpose. It sharpens focus, ignites creativity, and breeds determination—all essential qualities for growth. Embracing struggle fosters a sense of purpose, galvanizing individuals to pursue their objectives with renewed energy and clarity.

As we prepare to delve into the release phase next week, consider how your personal and professional struggles have shaped your current path. Growth can only come when we allow ourselves to face discomfort and learn from it.

In conclusion, if you are looking to transition from being a generalist to a specialist in your business, I invite you to book a strategy call with me. I currently have spots available for September. Together, let's create a plan that harnesses your experiences of struggle into actionable strategies for success.

Stay tuned for next week’s discussion on the release phase and how it can further enhance your journey!